Outside The Chi

Formerly This is My Life Blog

Something to Think About

Have to be really careful around people that come into your life…

What’s Going on in this Country?!

As most of us know by now there has been a disaster in the making in Charlottesville. I don’t even have to say what’s going on because it’s all over the news, internet and other media outlets.

From what I am seeing, how is this making America a better place? If anything it’s going to make it worse. I think we should be focused on what’s going on between us and other countries and not fighting amongst each other on our own soil. Right now, we are the laughing stock of the world right now. At this rate, this country is going to fail quickly (not that its not already failing). We talk about what happens in 3rd world countries all the time and we are turning into one!

If we are going to survive as a country, we will have to do better than this. As a person that believes in God, I believe that its going to get worse before it gets better because we are living in the end times. Being that, we are going to have to experience some things before the “better” comes. We didnt know exactly what was going to come to pass, but the way things are going now, it’s coming to life in front of our faces. In order to survive and get past this, we should put our trust in God and not in a man that claims he can “Fix” everything. From what I am seeing, things are not getting fixed, its getting worse!

What ever happens as time progresses, I think a lot of people are going to start turning to Gods way of dealing with things instead of mans because it getting out of control and one human CAN NOT fix what we are about to experience. In closing, I hope more people will turn to God before time runs out, because the way things are going now, it’s coming soon. until  my next post, Be Blessed!

John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

5 Signs You Haven’t Fully Healed from Narcissistic Abuse

Found this helpful!


By Eric Charles, MA., PhD-c

It is common for individuals who experience narcissistic abuse to suffer in silence or not even know that they are being abused. Because narcissists are master manipulators, they can be very difficult to spot. Narcissist abuse syndrome is a term used by mental health professionals to describe individuals who have been victimized to the extent that long-term negative effects may seem insurmountable to the victim. Before we can heal, we must identify the signs telling us that healing must be a priority. Here are some of those signs.

1. Trusting again seems impossible
If you are experiencing the effects of narcissistic abuse, chances are you find it difficult to trust others and maybe even yourself. Let’s not assume that the world is a safe and harmonious place. Trust must be earned. However, if you find yourself hiding in isolation, this might be a sign that…

View original post 525 more words

“It’s not love when they get their high off of making you feel low”

Here’s a video from a motival speaker Trent Shelton that I came across on his Facebook page. I’ve experienced a lot of what he’s talking about in this video. Take a look for yourself and see what he says about when people try to make you feel low.

Trump Wants Police Officers To Be MORE Violent To ‘Thugs, my opinion…

As I was reading the latest news stories on my phone today, I came across this article on I’m thinking to myself, will being “more” violent solve the problems we are having with the troublemakers in society? I personally don’t think this will make a difference with trying to stop violence. I think it will create more of an uproar than it already is with how people are treated when encountered by police. From most of videos i’ve seen so far with this type of mentality, sometimes the person being arrested may not always be the “Thug” or “violent” type, but that are getting treated like one regardless.

Read the article by clicking the link below to see the full article.
View article here…

  I know I have not posted on here in a while, but I just wanted to share an article about a technical issue I’ve been having for a long time with my iPhone 6 Plus. This may work for androids as well if they have this problem. Below is the link to the article that walks you through the steps on how to manually connect to a free  Wi-Fi signal that’s offered in many places like restaurants, libraries, coffee shops, etc.
Click here to go to website!


It’s that time of the year were most people are hype up and happy and excited about the holidays and life in general. The truth is, its not that way for all people. It’s some people that are going through a rough time around this time of the year and for some, its a seasonal thing.

Every year around this time the stores are preparing for the holiday season with sales for Food, decorations, etc months before the holidays arrive. Some people are still recovering from the previous holiday season the year before and before we know it, the holidays are knocking the door once again.

Unfortunately, the holidays are not really focused on the holiday itself, but the commercialism and consumerism that comes along with it and that’s what gets a lot of people in the dumps because because everyone is not in the position to splurge on gifts and holiday feasts. So, it effect some people in a negative way because of their situation and some times it may start during the year and just magnifies during the holidays. I don’t want to ramble on to much. I just wanted to encourage people to hold on, including myself. Below is a video from one of my favorite motivational speakers Trent Shelton whom is encouraging us all to keep going.

The Challange and Prank Epidemic

It seems for a while we’ve been seeing prank and challenge videos plastered all over the Internet. The pranks seem to be growing intense in nature for example, one prank video that I was watching dealt with a guy pretending to be dead when his girlfriend came home. Once the prank was over, the she would be so mad to the point of ending the relationship. It seems as if these pranks that are going viral over the web (especially YouTube) are not just you’re average pranks anymore and after each one, the victim of the prank plots a revenge on the prankster that is meant to be worse than the one they did on them initially.

The thing that i notice is that the people involved in the pranks fall for the pranks (well, they seem to fall for it) most of the time. I’m thinking to myself, if they’ve been pranking each other all this time, won’t they be kind of expecting it when someone does something unusual? That’s just me. Maybe they know its a prank and just doing it for views or popularity.

As for the challenges, the most recent one, the mannequin challenge is going viral as well with a lot of people doing it from teens at school to news anchors, celebs and even prison staff (posed as inmates?) being involved. I actually kind of like this challenge because know one gets hurt in the process. I guess, in a way these things help take our minds off the other negative stuff going on in the country right now.

A way to look at things happening now in this world

Here’s a video from Trent Shelton. A motivational speaker. He brings up a lot of valid points about how to deal with the uncertainty of the election. 

Click here for video

Powered by

Up ↑

%d bloggers like this: